Every guy can use a his own hand - what's the fun? Masturbators can be a good tool for men to use in order to maintain erections and hold out on orgasms giving the woman a more pleasurable and exciting experience. Masturbators are essentially vibrators for men and some look very much like a vagina, anus and even the mouth. These toys make the experience more sensual and stimulating and are also an effective tool to control ones orgasm. And girls - don't be afraid to help the guys out once in aawhile - you can find it to be quite erotic and fun as well.